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Definitions:
How often has each of us seen something happen while with
another person and much to our disappointment we each come away
from the event with a different recollection? The cumulative effect
of our life experiences creates in each of us a lens through which
we observe what goes on around us. This lens focuses our attention
on particular aspects of what we see. Society passes principles
and values to future generations through Customs, Traditions and
Rituals that mold this lens through which we view our lives and
shape our opinions. Throughout history, cultures have passed their
Family Values to future generations by these means.
Americans have many Customs and Traditions rooted in the cultures
of our forefathers who were either Native Americans or who settled
this great land after journeying long distances from other nations
in search of "The American Dream". Very often the display
of an object or symbol that is meaningful to a family or to society
can become a Custom, Tradition or Ritual. Family Values are reflected
in the Customs and Traditions practiced.
Although tedious we must consider the definitions from the dictionary:
Habit: A behavior pattern acquired by frequent repetition
or physiologic exposure that shows itself in regularity or increased
facility of performance. An acquired mode of behavior that has become
nearly or completely involuntary.
Custom: A usage or practice common to many or to a particular
place or class, or habitual with an individual. Long established
practice considered as unwritten law. Repeated practice. The whole
body of usages, practices, or conventions that regulate social life.
Tradition: An inherited, established, or customary pattern
of thought, action, or behavior (as a religious practice or social
custom). The handing down of information, beliefs, and customs by
word of mouth or by example from one generation to another without
written instruction. Cultural continuity in social attitudes, customs,
and institutions. Characteristic manner, method, or style.
Ritual: The established form for a ceremony; the order
of words prescribed for a religious ceremony. Ritual observance:
system of rites, a ceremonial act or action or a customarily repeated
often formal act or series of acts.
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